Is it the highs of the honeymoon period wearing off? When the realization that you don’t have a future together sets in, it is all the more important to make the right decision. To help you with that, here are a few signs they're NOT the one.
DISCLAIMER: this is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional advice. If you can relate to any of these signs, please know this feedback is not meant to discredit anyone. It is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.
We also made a video on signs they are the one: https://youtu.be/pQznAGtjlek
Writer: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera www.youtube.com/amandasilvera
Animator: Celia Sánchez (new animator) @celiasanchezarte
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong
References
Enduring love? (n.d.). Distance Learning Courses and Adult Education - The Open University. https://www.open.ac.uk/researchprojects/enduringlove/
Finkel, E. J., Hui, C. M., Carswell, K. L., & Larson, G. M. (2014). The suffocation of marriage: Climbing Mount Maslow without enough oxygen. Psychological Inquiry, 25(1), 1-41. www.doi.org/10.1080/1047840x.2014.863723
The four horsemen: Criticism. (2020, December 29). The Gottman Institute. www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-criticism
The four things that kill a relationship stone dead. (2016, October 16). PsyBlog. www.spring.org.uk/2013/07/the-four-things-that-kill-a-relationship-stone-dead.php
