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Today we're diving into a topic that's personal and, let's face it, maybe a bit spicy – fetishes and role-playing in Christian marriages. We break it down, defining fetishes as those specific non-sexual things that can light a fire, and role-playing as, well, acting out those scenarios that get the imagination going. But here's the real talk – we're shedding light on the dangers of pornography and its influence on these aspects of intimacy. We also explore the idea that some fantasies may have roots in our adolescence. Through it all, we're hitting home the importance of mutual consent, safety, and honoring God in our sexual activities. As we wrap up, we want to remind you that communication is key, and addressing any restrictions or guilt is crucial for a healthy, fulfilling sexual relationship. Join us for a candid conversation where nothing's off-limits! ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://rb.gy/a9rark The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways - Fetishes are specific nonsexual objects or scenarios that turn someone on sexually. - Role playing involves acting out specific roles and scenarios in a sexual context. - Pornography can fuel fetishes and role playing, leading to potentially harmful and disrespectful behavior. - Couples should ensure that both partners feel safe and comfortable in exploring fetishes and role playing. - Open communication, consent, and reflection are essential in maintaining a healthy and respectful sexual relationship. - Sex should be viewed as a gift from God and should not involve scenarios that are violent or objectifying. ------------------ 0:00 Introduction and Setting the Tone 01:06 Defining Fetishes and Role Playing 02:24 Dangers of Pornography in Fetishes and Role Playing 03:22 Exploring Fetishes and Role Playing from Personal Fantasies 04:46 The Danger of Losing Identity in Role Playing 06:11 The Gateway to Dangerous Scenarios 07:07 The Influence of Pop Culture and BDSM 08:04 The Importance of Safety and Consent 09:28 Reflecting on Personal Actions and Apologizing 10:27 Addressing Rigid Beliefs and Guilt 11:19 Emphasizing Communication and Freedom in the Bedroom 11:37 Conclusion ------------------ Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. ‍ Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. As part of the XO Team, Dave and Ashley speak at all XO events, host The Naked Marriage Podcast, and create new resources to help you thrive in your marriage. ‍ The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas.